tell jemalloc to use 64-KiB pages (copy #5566)

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Description here

Fixes #3382

For more detail about the issue:

• Compiled-in page size makes jemalloc binaries unportable jemalloc/jemalloc#467

This change is similar to what other projects are doing. We've been using that internally as well.

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